5 Reasons to Take it Slow when Dating Your Ex

Published: 23rd February 2010
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There are all kinds of reasons when dating your ex after a breakup. Unfortunately, many couples dive right in and pick up exactly where you left off.

I bet you can guess what's wrong with that?

You better believe it. Right where you left off is a place you don't want to be. You see, things weren't very good when you left off or you would have never broken up to begin with. With that in mind, here are five great reasons to go slowly when trying to reconnect with your ex.

1)It gives you plenty of time to test the waters. If you rush right in you might find that the water is boiling hot, a raging river, or ice cold a little bit too late. Get your feet wet. Take things slow and let events unfold as though you were doing it all for the first time.

2)Going slow gives you a little time to adjust your sails so that this time the sailing is smooth and steady as you go. The more time you spend working out the kinks and making sure that both of you are on the same page the better the odds are that things will actually work out between the two of you this time around.

3)There aren't enough positive things that can be said about the importance of build up and anticipation for spurring the new relationship (even with your ex) forward. If you give in and go quickly in the beginning there's nothing to build up or look forward to.

4)You have the chance to really talk about what you want, where you want to go as a couple, and what went wrong before. Each of these things needs to be addressed before you can really move forward and work things out. It also gives you some food for thought to take home and sleep on after each date.

5)Finally, going slowly when dating your ex again gives you a little time to digest what's going on and decide how you really feel about things before taking things to the next level. It's always wise to take a little time to explore how you really feel about someone and that is almost impossible to do when you're right in the thick of things. You need a little time apart as much as you need to spend a little time together.

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