Curiosity May Have Killed The Cat But Can It Help You Get Your Ex Back?

Published: 28th May 2012
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Curiosity is a powerful thing. It can motivate animals to do the strangest thing. If you've ever watched young kittens at play, you know how true this is. But, did you know that it also has a powerful impact on humans too? The good news is that no cuddly kittens were harmed in the writing of this article.

Of course you're not reading about cats anyway. You want to know how curiosity can help you get your ex back, right? More on that later. First, let's talk about how powerful curiosity can be.

Curiosity presents itself in many ways in our lives. It can be a driving thirst for knowledge, a constant pursuit of new experiences, or even a desire to discover new things. When it comes to affairs of the heart, curiosity is generally about finding out what makes the other person tick. But, the odds are good that the other person was also interested in learning what made you tick too. Curiosity serves both sides of the coin more often than not.

That's a good thing. As much as you might believe you want to be an open book with your significant other, there are some benefits to remaining a bit of a mystery as well.

Knowing that there are a few things your ex doesn't really know about you at this point of time means that you have a little bit of wiggle room when it comes to provoking his (or her as the case may be) innate sense of curiosity.

So, you're wondering how on earth you can make your ex curious about you right now when you're not even really on speaking terms these days, aren't you.

It's okay. Believe it or not that's the best situation to ignite his curiosity especially if you've made attempts to get him back in the past. Here's what you need to do.

Be happy!

I know. It might be the hardest thing in the world to do but the more you practice the easier it will become to play the role.

Why happy and how can this possibly help? Remember you're not talking to each other these days.

That doesn't change the fact that we live in the height of the information age. Word gets around about whether or not you're all sad and hurt or whether you're out having fun and hitting the town. You want him to hear that you're having the time of your life. Practice it. Live it. Give word the chance to get around.

Then, it's time to make your move.

Call him up when you know he'll be unlikely to take your call. Leave a message.

"Hi Joe, it's Cindy. Look I really need to thank you for what you did. Can you call me back when you get a chance?"

Leave it at that. Say nothing else. Hang up the phone and wait for HIM to call YOU!

It really is that simple. It may take a few days while he wracks his brain trying to figure out what on earth it was that he did for you. But, if you give it enough time his curiosity is sure to get the better of him and he's going to break down and give you that call. He won't be able to help himself.

Now, its really important that you don't make that important call until you've planned out what you're going to do next. Otherwise you'll have wasted this major opportunity to get your ex back. Don't squander it. Have a plan in hand and ready to go by watching this FREE video before you make the call.

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