How can I be Intimate with my Husband after he has Cheated on Me?

There is a huge learning curve that comes with making up after you've been cheated on. Many women find themselves asking "how can I be intimate with my husband after he has cheated on me?" You may be one of those women. There are, in fact, quite a few ways you are going to need to go back and re-learn how to trust your husband as your relationship progresses after cheating has torn it apart.

So, how can you get to the point where you feel you can be intimate with your husband after he's cheated?

Stop Comparing Yourself to the other Woman

The odds are good that you are paying far more attention to her physical beauty than he ever did if you are comparing yourself to her. Men cheat for all sorts of reasons but he married you and ultimately chose to stay with you to work things out.

That means that he finds you plenty attractive. It also means that he finds something about you much more attractive than he found the total package in the other woman.

If he has decided to stick with you and work things out you should realize that he likes what he sees when he looks at you. It's time for you to learn to like what you see when you look in the mirror. You'll both be happier and your love life will sizzle.

Stop Punishing him for Cheating

Yes, he cheated on you. It hurt. You're angry. But, you've decided to try and work things out. You're going to have to let go of the anger and stop trying to punish him. Even if it's not a conscious decision to punish him you need to make sure that you aren't holding on to the anger as an excuse to avoid being intimate.

Some things you can consciously do that will help you move forward include the following:

• Make a list of all the reasons you continue to love your husband. Go over this list frequently to remind you so that when the time comes when you need to draw on that list the reasons will be easy to remember.
• Engage in lengthy bouts of verbal foreplay. If you are mentally "in the mood" you'll have a much easier time of staying in the mood when the moment comes.
• Practice giving rather than receiving when it comes to physical intimacy. Receiving the attention is often where the problem lies for women in this situation.

When the time comes to save your marriage or get your ex back from the arms of another woman, you'll want a sound strategy not only to get his attention but also to keep it.

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