How Can I Heal from a Breakup When I can't Accept that She's Gone?

You love your ex girlfriend. The fact that she's your ex still hasn't hit home though. You still wake up each morning expecting to see her face. You still find yourself extremely sad that she's not there beside you when you go to bed each night.

Healing is not something that happens over night. Neither is acceptance. Healing after a breakup is part of a process. It's the same process that people go through when grieving over the death of a loved one.

In some ways, breaking up and divorcing someone you've been with is, on an emotional level, a lot like losing that person to death. Before you can heal you have to accept that fact that she's gone. You'll never be able to heal until you've at least reached that point.

But, you don't have to be in any real hurry to accept that she's gone either. You could choose to devote your time and attention to figuring out how to get your ex girlfriend back instead of trying to deal with how to let her go.

When you just can't accept that she's gone then maybe it's time to get her back instead.

How do You Get Your Girlfriend Back?

Girls and guys seem to speak a different language when it comes to love. If she really loved you when you were together you can take comfort in the fact that she probably still has very strong feelings for you. She's just burying them beneath the surface and working really hard to harden her heart against you right now.

Whether you believe it or not, she's hurting over the breakup too. More to the point however is the fact that there is something she's not getting from you that she needs on a fundamental level in order to FEEL loved by you.

You can tell her you love her ten thousands a day from here to eternity and that's not going to get her attention and tear down the walls she's building to protect her heart.

But, What Will Work in this Situation?

You have to give her the one thing she's missing. It can come across as a thousand different things but at the heart of it all, women need one thing from their men in order to really feel loved by them. When they get this one thing they will walk across burning deserts barefoot for the men in their lives.

What is this one thing that will bring about such miracles?

It's APPRECIATION.

One little word means so much to women of all religions, from all walks of life, and at all economic stations. She NEEDS to feel that her small acts of love for you are appreciated by you. She needs those things acknowledged.

It doesn't require expensive gifts. You don't have to sweep her off her feet daily with romantic prose. You don't even have to make a fool of yourself for love. Just make her feel appreciated and you'll see an amazing turnaround in your relationship.

Of course the real challenge is showing her how much you do appreciate her when she isn't taking your calls.

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