How Can I Move on With Someone Else When I Still Love My Ex?

I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend. Everywhere I turn though people are talking about getting back on the horse and dating again. They want to fix me up and get me going out on the town. How can I move on with someone else when I still love my ex? It just doesn't seem right – or even possible.

Your friends and family, all the people pushing you to try again with another girl, really do love you a lot. They only want what's best for you and to see you happy. They aren't trying to talk you into something they believe is bad for you. They just want your pain to end and they feel like finding someone new to share your loneliness will actually help you make your loneliness end.

Want to Know a Secret?

Shh! You can't go brandying this particular secret about though, OK? It works sometimes. Shocking isn't it? But it's true. Sometimes, trying to move on with another girl can actually help you get over your ex. Will you stop loving your ex? Probably not. That's something that isn't really likely to happen – EVER! She's the one who got away and will always have a place in your heart.

But…If you play it right, you'll find that the love will not burn as brilliantly over time and that you only think about her when you're caught off guard. In times, the memories won't hit you like a freight train. You'll just feel a tiny twinge of sad regret but then be able to move on with your day.

It takes time to get there. One of the best ways to make it happen is to find love again with another great woman who can take your mind off your ex girlfriend and give your heart someone new and extraordinary in her own right to focus on.

The truth is that you aren't going to find that next great woman to hand your heart to if you're not at all interested in looking for her. Your family is trying to help you cast a wider net so you can find someone new and exciting to share your loneliness with and, perhaps, end it altogether.

The only other option really available to you is to make the decision to do whatever it takes to get your ex back instead of trying to move on with your life without her in it.

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