How can my Wife Cheat on me if she Really Loves Me?

Men are often flabbergasted to find out that their wives who have just confessed in one breath that they've been cheating are making wild claims with the next breath that they still love him. In our society you're probably tempted to check her tongue for forks with double talk like that, right?

The thing is, she very well might be telling the truth. There isn't a rule, written or otherwise, that says you can't make mistakes if you love someone. She can love you very much and still be tempted by a man who offers her something she needs that you're not offering.
Here's the kicker. It might be something she doesn't even realize she needs until the "other man" is offering it to her freely and she's lapping it up like bread from the heavens. But how can she do this to you, right?

Honestly, this isn't something she set out to do. She isn't doing it to hurt you. Unfortunately, when it comes to her cheating on you with another man, you have been relegated to an afterthought. She loves you but her needs are overriding her love.

It's not even libido though that is her downfall in most cases. Women aren't often swayed to cheat with a man because he's better endowed, more handsome, dresses better, or even because he's in a higher tax bracket. Women cheat because he offers her something that is a driving need and that you aren't currently giving her.

It's not always something that you're not capable of giving her. In fact, most of the time it's something you could give her and that you'd be perfectly willing to give it to her. You just don't know that she needs it. It's that whole mind reader thing. It causes all kinds of relationship problems doesn't it?

So, what do you need to do to get your relationship back on the bright and narrow path towards "happily ever after?"

1)Find out what she needs that you aren't giving her. Ask if you need to. It might be something she finds hard to put into words but press on this above all else. If you can't give her what she needs you're only prolonging the inevitable. She will likely cheat again.

2)Offer her a little extra. While going above and beyond offers no flat out guarantees it can make a world of difference in the future of your relationship. Give it a try and see what it does for the two of you. She loves you. This is just icing on the cake to help her remain faithful to you.

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