She told you she just "fell out of love" with you. She didn't want to lead you on anymore. She didn't want to hurt you but she couldn't go on living a lie.
You've replayed these parting words of hers in your mind every single day since she left. The one thing you want to know is this: "How did she fell out of love with me and can I make her fall back in love with me?"
As simple as it sounds to fall in love with someone it rarely happens just like that. At the same time, it's not possible to just snap your fingers or change your mind and fall out of love with someone either. Otherwise relationship counselors the world over would be out of jobs.
Love is messy. Love hurts sometimes. But when it's going well, love is the most wonderful experience in the world. It's enough to build monuments, create stunning works of art, write poems that will last the ages, and bring tears of joy on wedding days. Love is as beautiful as it can be heartbreaking.
But it is not something that happens in an instant – at least not for most of the world. That's really great news for YOU. It means that there is a part of her that still loves you. She didn't just turn it off. It means that YOU still have a chance to win her back!
Even better is that you don't have to make her fall back in love with you. She already loves you. You just have to make her remember what was so great about loving you in the first place.
Think back to when you first started dating. How did you treat her? I'm not talking about the princess treatment where nothing she said or did was wrong. I'm talking about the fact that you noticed the little things that she did and commented on them. YOU made her feel like you APPRECIATED the effort she made to please you.
How long has it been since you told her "wow you look great!" Without her asking you how she looked first? Do you notice when she's wearing a new dress? New perfume? How about when she picks up your dry cleaning or bakes your favorite kind of cake just because she loves you? Do you acknowledge these things?
She doesn't want much from you. You don't have to buy her expensive gifts. But when you make her feel as though the small things she does to please you really matter to YOU then she will go to great lengths to make and keep you happy. More importantly, she will FEEL more loved and cherished by YOU.
Now before you rush off to try this new move out on your ex there's something you NEED to do first. You need to watch this free video ->
http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html to learn how to get her to give you the second chance to show her these changes that are sure to sweep her off her feet. The opening move in this free video will gain you more ground as you try to get your girlfriend back than anything else you've tried so far. It's worked for couples in more than 77 countries and it just might be the solution for you too!
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