How Do I Get My Boyfriend Back When I'm The One Who Left?

I'm the one who walked away. I have spent almost every day since that day regretting the decision I made. I don't know where to turn or what to do next. I don't even think he'd talk to me if I tried to get in touch with him. I hurt him so much. Now I'm the one who is hurting. How do I get my boyfriend back when I'm the one who left?

Plan Your Opening Move

The first thing you need to do is get his attention in a good way. For this reason you need to sit down and carefully plan your opening move. The odds are good that there is a little pain still going on in his heart and mind. There's also going to be some suspicion. Above all else though, your boyfriend is probably going to be a little angry and resentful. Men do not take being dumped well at all.

Keep all these things in mind as you make the plans for your move. You definitely don't want him to channel his inner Cee Lo Green and start singing "Forget You!"

Your opening move needs to let him know that you've seen the error of your ways and realized that he's the ONLY man for you. You need to seriously stroke his EGO! Use flattery shamelessly. Let him know that he's the man and make him feel your sincerity if you want to get him back.

Have Patience

It might take him a little while to come around to your way of thinking. He may even be planning out how to get you back already but not willing to let you know. Of course, he might also just be extremely suspicious and reluctant to give you a second chance not only to hurt his pride but also to really break his heart.

It wasn't easy for him to get dumped. But the hard part was waking up the next many mornings to realize that the pain hadn't gone away and that he still loves/loved you. Give him a little time to digest the news that you want a second chance with him and allow him the opportunity to drag things out a bit. If you really want to make things work this time around you'll give him that.

Even if he says no at first, that doesn't mean that "no" is his final answer. Always keep that in mind before you give up and make the mistake of moving on all too soon.

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