How do I Get My Ex Out of My System?

Published: 08th August 2011
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You'd been doing great. Thought you had life by the horns and that you were on your way to even better things. You had a nice girl. You were thinking about a long and happy future together. Then wham-o. She turned your world upside down and dumped you on the spot.

Now all you can think about is her and how much you're hurting. It's not a comfortable feeling for you. You want to move on and get over her but every time you think you're getting close you cross paths with something that reminds you of her and your time together and are right back where you started.

You just want to know one thing: "How do I get her out of my system?" You're ready for a fresh start and a new life without her. At least that's what you keep telling yourself. You know without a doubt that you're ready to stop hurting. So what's a guy to do to get a girl out of his system? Is it time to take on marathon dating to try to replace her with someone else as quickly as possible?

Fortunately for you, you're not going to have to go on one of those online dating sites and plan a date for every night of the week. But there are a few things you can do to help you get your ex out of your system.

Get Your Ex Back

This is by far the best case scenario. It's also probably the one that would make you happiest if you are this miserable without her. It does come with its own share of risks to your pride and your heart but the potential rewards merit those risks.

Find a Cause to Support

You probably support quite a few causes already. Now it's time to roll up your sleeves and get really active in your support of at least one of these causes. This accomplishes many things.

It introduces you to a new group of people. It allows you to do something you can not only feel good about doing but also feel better about yourself for doing it (getting dumped can take a lot out of your self-confidence).

Finally, it fills up long hours that were likely to be lonely without your ex in them. Now you have less time to brood about the fact that you're no longer together.

You don't have to go very far out of your way to find even more ways to get your ex out of your system. Whether you try to get your ex back or dive into a good cause there are other things you need to know that will help you move forward with or without your ex in your life. Watch this free video=> to learn the first step you need to make right now.

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