How do I know He Won't Cheat Again – Sure Shots to Make Him think Twice before Cheating Again?

Published: 04th June 2010
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If you're looking for assurances of faithfulness after your guy has cheated you are going to be disappointed. There is no absolute one thing you can do that will make you or him absolutely certain that he will never cheat on you again. That's the bad news.

The good news is that there are things you can do that may not guarantee he won't cheat again but will definitely make it a much harder choice for him to make. You may not know, without a doubt that he will never cheat on you again but you can feel confident that he will not make that decision lightly in the future.

What can You do that will Make Him Avoid Cheating Again?

1) Don't make the first time painless. Even if you're going to forgive him for cheating in the first place you need to let him know how it affected you. Make him aware of how hurt you were by his actions. It hurts him to know that he has hurt you. Because he loves you and doesn't want to hurt you again he'll work hard to avoid putting you in that position again. The more he feels your pain the more pain he will feel and if he is ever tempted in the future he will remember.

2) Give him a reason to keep coming back. As odd as this may sound the bedroom isn't the only room in the house to keep him returning to. Give him a stress free home life, good home cooked meals, and a steady diet of spice in his love life along with a share of the spotlight for your adoration and he'll be a willing captive for many years to come. No other woman could possibly compare.

3) Keep your relationship full of adventure. This serves multiple purposes. First, it fills up any spare time he may have had and leaves him little time or inclination for extra curricular activities. Second, when you're making plans to do things and go places together his mind is filled with those thoughts (provided you are making these adventures he will want to pursue) and have little left over brain power for giving the other women he encounters a second glance much less a second thought. Finally, it gives you both something to look forward to together, talk about, and plan for. When you're making plans together it is very difficult for him to take the risks another woman would introduce to his happy future.

These are all great starts but if you want a sure shot method to ensure your guy has his head where it belongs or to get your ex back if you've had a hard time forgiving him in the past you're going to need to bring out the big guns:

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