How do I Regain Confidence in the Bedroom after my Wife Cheated?

How do I Regain Confidence in the Bedroom after my Wife Cheated?

Do you have a cheating wife on your hands? Are you having a hard time finding the confidence you never lacked in the bedroom all of a sudden? It's not the uncommon. For many men a cheating wife is not only an emotional betrayal of the marriage vows but also a direct act of rejection against his skills as a lover.

In other words, it is one of the worst insults that can be delivered. Here's something important to remember if you are one of the many men wondering "how do I regain confidence in the bedroom after my wife cheated?" It is rarely your skills and experience (or any perceived lack of skill or experience) in the bedroom that will lead a woman to cheat.

There are rare exceptions but they are so very rare that it's probably likely not the reason in your specific situation. Here are a few things you can do that will help you regain your lost confidence.

Find out what Really Went Wrong

When you aren't sure why something happens there is this strong human tendency to imagine things much worse, or at least very different, than they really happen to be.

You have to find out the real reason why she cheated on you. Until you do there will be no peace of mind for you and you will constantly find your efforts at lovemaking - distracted at best.

The best way to accomplish this, of course, is the direct approach. Ask her why. Try to do it at a time when emotions aren't raw and never ask while you are in bed with her but you need to get to the bottom of things so that your relationship can resume and progress.

Find out why she Chose to Stay with You

Once you find out why he was tempting you also need to investigate the reasons she chose to stay with you rather than leaving with him. There has to be a reason.

While it might not be that your love making skills left him in the dust it probably wasn't because your bedside manner was sorely lacking and she felt sorry for you either. Be bolstered by the fact that she did, in fact, choose to be with you. She found you to be the better man at the end of the day and that is cause to celebrate and should be a definite point of pride. In fact, it might put a little swagger back in your stride and a little sizzle back in your bedroom.

Can you use this to get your ex back? You better believe it. A confident man is a sexy man in the eyes of most women. Regain your confidence and you'll be well on your way to winning your girl back for good.

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