How Do We Make Up After All We've Said and Done?

Relationships are amazing things. With the strong amount of love people have for each other, it's no wonder that husbands and wives, parents and children are all able to forgive one another for the occasional transgression. We humans have a bad habit of hurting those we love the most the deepest.

Most of the time it takes a lot to push someone who really loves you beyond the point where they can't offer forgiveness. Most of the time it's not as difficult as you believe it is to make up eve though you've said and done many things you're not proud of. There are things you can do though that will help the forgiveness process along if you're really serious about finding a way to make up after all you've said and done.

1) Offer forgiveness. This is something done in your own heart. You need no fanfare or flowery declarations. You just need to forgive the other person for whatever he or she has done to you. Start small and forgive little things before moving on to the bigger things. The more you forgive the easier it will become to offer forgiveness to others and accept it when it's offered to you.
2) Ask for forgiveness. This is the hardest thing for some people to do. It goes beyond offering an apology. Asking for forgiveness involves making a request of the other person that you have wronged in the past. Forgiveness is a gift that should never be forgotten or unreturned. Keep this in mind as well.
3) Make amends. Go to your partner and make amends for the things you said and did that can never be taken back. You won't be able to undo them but the odds are good that you can lessen the impact they have on your partner and your relationship.
4) Lobby for a second chance. If you're hoping to get your ex back and go beyond merely making up after all you've been through then you're going to need to do some serious lobbying to get that second chance. It's going to be much more difficult to accomplish this than it was to get a little kids earlier in your planning.
5) Be as charming and flattering as possible. You've won your ex over once before already. You know the major steps involved in the process. Most of them involved you either being incredibly charming, indescribably flattering, or some combination of the two. Use these well for they do have a lot of power.

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