How do You Make Yourself Keep Loving Your Cheating Wife?

The better question to ask instead of how do you make yourself keep loving your cheating wife would be how do you make yourself stop loving her? The thing about a cheating wife is that you don't just suddenly stop loving her because she cheated. The emotions are deeper than a single act. It is much easier to keep loving her than it is to force yourself to stop.

That doesn't mean, though, that it will be easy to live with her or even that you should stay with your cheating wife. What it does mean is that one bad act doesn't change the person you love and it doesn't change how you feel about that person either.

We all have a tendency to view the world with blinders that see only black and white. Or, rather want to see everything in black and white. Moral judgments are much easier to make that way. The only problem is that if we only see black and white we miss out on an infinite number of shades of gray and splashes of color. We miss out on things that would change our worlds and how we look at those worlds.

How do you keep loving your cheating wife?

Begin by painting your world red. Remember all the passion and fire that you love so much about your wife. Don't dwell on the bad times. Think back to all the good times, really good times, the two of you have shared. Let those color how you see her in the vivid way these bright splashes of color are supposed to.

Let the sun shine in. This is where you bring in bright splashes of yellow and sky blue. Remember all the brightness and sunshine she brings into your life. Remind yourself of all the ways she makes you laugh and smile. Think about how much better the cloudy days are to handle because you are sure there will be more sunny days ahead with her in your life.

Shape and define your life portrait with shades of gray that soften the edges and provide texture and tone to the overall landscape of your life. Remember that just as you are beginning to see her with new eyes that aren't focused on the black and white that she must now look at your through new eyes too. When you learn to see each other with new eyes it will be like you're both married to completely new and wonderful people. It's the perfect time to leave the past behind you and start over from scratch as the new and improved people you are becoming day by day.

Even if you've called it quits, learning to see her through new eyes can help you learn to love her all over again. Are you ready for a second chance to get your ex back?

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