Are you wracked by guilt because you didn't live up to his expectations?
Do you feel as though you can't get through another day without him in your life?
Are you dedicated to winning him back?
The problem is that you are all of these things, you want him back, but you have no idea how to win his heart back. You are not alone. Many women face this same struggle each and every day.
Unfortunately, so many women go about it the wrong way. They call, they send dozens of text messages in rapid fire succession, they email constantly, they beg, they cry. So, what's the problem? None of these things work. The guy might give in and take you back for a little while but things quickly revert back to normal and the relationship is on the brink or in the drink once again before either of you can say "relationship counseling."
This is no way to fix the problem. In fact, until you actually dig down deep and fix the problem, there's little hope for your relationship to advance much less come in off the ledge.
So, what's the first step?
1)Identify the underlying problem in the relationship. Many times this is not going to be the problem that ended the relationship. The last straw is often just that. One little, teeny, tiny thing that broke the camel's back. It is often completely unrelated to what the real problem is. You're going to have to go back in time in your mind and find out what the underlying bone of contention between the two of you is.
2)Fix the problem. It's not enough to just identify the problem. If you are serious in your efforts to learn how to win his heart back you're going to have to correct the problem so that it can no longer serve as a wedge between the two of you.
3)Let him see for himself the changes you've made.
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