I Don't Know How to Move on Without Her in My Life Help!

Published: 23rd May 2011
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My girlfriend just dumped me. I don't know what I'm going to do. All my plans for the future had her in them and now I'm not sure what my next move should be. I don't know how to move on without her in my life. I need help to get through this and have no idea where to turn.

Sound familiar?

Moving on with your girlfriend in your life can seem like an impossible task at the moment. You had spent so much time planning and building a future together that you don't know where to go or what to do now that she's out of your life. It's a hard position to be in but not impossible to recover from. You can move on without her in your life. But it's going to take a little work and a whole lot of willpower to make it happen.

Here's what you need to do.

Open the Door to a New Chapter in Your Life

You've probably heard the saying "when God closes a door, he opens a window." No matter what your particular religious beliefs may be the idea of doors closing and windows opening is probably one you can visualize quite nicely. Now is the time to do that in your life.

I'm not talking about finding a new girl to replace the one that left. Now is definitely not the time for that. But perhaps it's time to find a new target for the love you were giving her: yourself.

Now is a great time to start putting yourself first for a little while and see what you can do to become your best person and live your best life without her in it.

This accomplishes two things.

First, it gives you a new project to focus your time, energy, and thoughts on so that you are not constantly thinking of her and what's missing in your life that was there before.

Second, it helps you become a more "complete" person. The more you work on yourself, the better your confidence in yourself will be. Most importantly, the more improvements you make in yourself, the better you will like yourself as a person.

A new chapter in your life is a great beginning in your efforts to move on without your girlfriend in your life. It's not going to take away the pain but it will help make the pain more manageable for you.

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