I Need Some Advice on How to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

In the days following your breakup one thought is going to go through your mind over and over and over again. It will play through day and night like a broken record that keeps coming back to that one line: "I need some advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back."

Is something like that going through your mind constantly right now? Is it a rhythm you just can't seem to escape at any hour of the day or night? Are you desperate to get her back but have no idea where to even get started?

Wouldn't it be great if all you needed to do was look into a crystal ball and all the secrets for success in life and in relationships would be revealed to you?

Unfortunately, this crystal ball doesn't exist. But now that I've helped couples in over 77 countries overcome the mistakes of the past I can clue you in on what your first move needs to be if you want to get your ex girlfriend back.

Agree With Her About the Breakup and Her Reasons for It

You read that right. I know it goes against everything you've been told in the past. But those things haven't quite worked out for you so far. So, perhaps it's time to switch tactics and go for a new move.

But there are a few other details you need to iron out before you rush right over to let her know you agree with her.

As a matter of fact, DON'T go over there at all. There's a better way to make your point crystal clear to her while saving face and resisting temptation at the same time.

How do you do this?

You do this by writing her a letter. Now this letter is really important. It is your way of letting her know that you're backing off. It needs to be handwritten because the truth of the matter is that she's about 95 percent more likely to read it if you write it by hand and send it by mail than if you emailed, text messaged, or typed a letter.

But, there are a few common mistakes you want to avoid making in the letter you write to your ex girlfriend. What are these mistakes?

1) Don't apologize. That's not what this letter is about. Offer the facts and your agreement and stick with the script.

2) Don't argue your position. This letter is about giving her what she wants: time apart from you. You're agreeing to end the relationship in this letter not trying to rehash old arguments or win her back.

3) Don't take on a bitter tone. This isn't about bitterness or an opportunity to lash out in order to hurt her the way you're hurting. This is your opportunity to give her peace and let her go…at least as far as she knows.

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