I Never Thought I'd be the one Cheating – Where do I go from Here?

Published: 29th June 2010
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Most people who cheat never intended to be a cheater. They didn't set out to cheat and now that they have are at a complete and total loss for what comes next. They have no idea what the next move to make should be.

Here are a few things you need to do as quickly as possible.

1) Stay or go? If you've cheated you need to dig down deep for some serious soul searching. Decision time is at hand and you have one doozey of a decision to make. Do you want to stay with your husband or wife or are you ready to move on to something new and different? The sooner you know the answer to that particular question the sooner you can move on to other questions that need to be asked and answered. So, will you stay or will you go?

2) To tell or not to tell. If you decide to stay with your spouse then you must decide whether or not you are going to tell your spouse what has been going on. It might seem like the right thing to do in some situations because you are clearing the air between you. But, it could also be viewed as a selfish act by unburdening yourself or relieving your guilty conscience. Either way you must be careful that you do not come across as revealing this situation for selfish reasons.

3) Call things off with the other person. If you are going to try to make your marriage or relationship work then you have to let go of the other one. It's nearly impossible to build big, strong, and happy relationships with one person while your heart, attention, or libido is still divided between two different people.

4) Become the person you want to be. If you never imagined you'd cheat on your spouse and you don't like that about yourself, it's time to change. Change isn't as difficult as many people would like to imply. Some changes are even good for you and good to you. If you don't like the fact that you cheated on your spouse now is the perfect time to go back into the relationship and cheat no more.

5) Make it up to your spouse in little ways that might not garner a lot of attention. This could work to your advantage even if you have no plans at all of revealing what has happened. You know the things your spouse likes and appreciates. Make small steps to give those things to your spouse, even if your spouse doesn't know you've cheated.

Your spouse may have found out about your cheating or your guilt may have gotten the best of you in the past. If the relationship ended, you can still get your ex back and build a bigger, better relationship than ever before. Here's what you need to do to get your ex back fast and enjoy a relationship free from cheating in the future: http://www.magicofmakingup.com.


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