I'm Getting Mixed Signals From My Ex Help!

Published: 12th October 2011
Views: N/A

Your world was shattered when you first broke up. It took a lot of hard work for you to put your relationship behind you and begin to move on with your life. Then she showed up all over again.

Suddenly, she's talking about the good ole days and how much she misses you. Then the next day she's remembering the fights you used to have and bringing up old mistakes you both made along the way. You can't tell if she's wanting to hook up again or trying to talk herself out of it. You can't help but think: "I'm getting mixed signals from my ex help!"

Part of you wants to rush right in and try to work things out. There will always be a part of you that remembers the good times and wants so much to get them back.

Then there's the cautious part of you that remembers just how hard it was to pick up the pieces that last time around. That part of you wants to make dust, roadrunner style.

But, what should YOU do when it's YOUR heart that's on the line? Are you prepared to face the mirror and ask "what if?" should you let her get away again? Are you ready to risk your heart by going for that second chance without a safety net?

It's a hard choice after all the time you've invested and all the pain you've been through to get over her. Part of you resents her deeply for showing back up in your life. The other part of you wants desperately to reel her in and never let her go.

She's sending mixed signals and you're not sure if running for the hills is in order or if you should stand your ground and see if she can ever really make up her mind?

On the one hand, nothing really matters until she decides what she wants from you. But, what if you could her make the decision that would serve you best? Whether you want her to stay or go there are things you can do that will affect the outcome of her decision. Are you up for the challenge?

Here's the first step: DECIDE what YOU want to do.

If you're like most guys, even though that self-preservation and wounded pride urge is strong to protect there is another urge that's even stronger. It's the urge to get her back. The mind can tell the heart what it should do time and time again.

But the heart is going to go its own way more often than not. The problem for your mind, is that your heart has already made up its mind. And what it wants is to get your girlfriend back.

So the ball is in your court. The one thing you need to do that is going to knock her socks off, bowl her over, and really rock her world (you know you've been dying to do all three of these things since the day she left) is to show her just how much you APPRECIATE her.

It sounds so simple, maybe a little too simple for the lofty goal of trying to get your girlfriend back. But, I'm here to tell you: it WORKS. It's worked for more than 50,000 couples already. Watch this free video -> http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html to find out just what you need to do to show her your appreciation in a way that will MATTER to her. You won't be disappointed!

Report this article Ask About This Article

More to Explore