I'm Not Ready to Give Up – How do I Get Him Back?

You've been told that it's time to give up on the hope that you can get him back. Your friends and family are all about ready to give up on you. The problem is you still love your ex and you know, without a doubt that he still loves you.

What you don't understand is why he left to begin with. You really can't figure out why he hasn't come back to you yet. The one thing you do know is that you're willing to do whatever it takes to get him back. But, the answer for "How do I get him back?" just isn't coming to you.

It would be nice if we could all have those crystal balls that tell us our relationship futures. But, that would take half the fun out of the process wouldn't it? Without the great risks the rewards of finding that one special someone to spend the rest of our lives with would just seem to fall short somehow.

Letting Go is Not Giving Up

Somewhere along the line you've probably heard the old proverb about setting something free if you really love it. It goes on to say that if it comes back to you it's yours and if it doesn't it was never REALLY yours to begin with. The hardest thing for a human to do is let go of someone you really love and wait for it to return to you.

For some people that feels like giving up. But that's not the case at all. It's having faith – something that is in increasingly short supply these days.

Relationships work much the same way. Sometimes he needs a chance to go out there and spread his wings a bit before coming to his senses and coming back to you. You have to give him that opportunity or you risk losing him for good.

AGREE to the breakup. Let things end between the two of you and don't try to get him back – at least not yet. Just let him go. Give him his wings.

Take Your Time to Soar

While he's out there getting his wings and seeing just how great things were with you, it's time for you to start making a few "improvements" of your own.

The odds are good that you didn't have daily fights or disagreements. If you did they were limited to one or two contentious issues. It's time to disarm those issues once and for all. The most common thing couples fight over – especially in the current state of the world – is money.

Get your money issues in hand and work on a plan that will lead to better handling of money now and in the future.

Once you have that taken care of and are working on a better financial outlook than ever before it's time to work on getting his attention. This is where I can help YOU!

Are you ready to get your ex back once and for all? You've solved the big problem in your relationship when you got your money matters in order. But there's one more hurtle you have to overcome. You have to be able to get his ATTENTION so he can see the changes you've made. I've made a FREE video -> http://www.magicofmakingup.com/ just for you that teaches the opening move you need to make to get him back fast.