I'm So Confused – Is Giving Him a Second Chance Worth the Risk?

It took months for you to get over him. You cried a river of tears and then some over the way he broke your heart. Now, you're finally starting to move on and see a future without him in it for the first time in longer than you can remember. So, of course, he shows up and throws your world right back into an eternal state of chaos.

He wants a second chance. It seems so simple. It seems so innocent. He seems sincere. He seems to have been hurting as much as you have over the past several months. So, what's the problem? You know, deep down inside that you want him back too. So why can't you welcome him back with open arms and tears of joy for a change?

You're feeling extremely confused right now, aren't you? It's understandable. You've been through a lot to get to this place. Just when you think you have it all figured out and can FINALLY get on with your life the same man jumps in and turns it all upside down again.

But, there's part of you that knows this is a sort of answered prayer for you – even if it took a little longer than you would have liked. Now you have a few big decisions to make before you can do anything else. You're going to have to decide, once and for all, if he's worth the risk of loving again. Is there an easy way to tell?

These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself before you make your decision to give him a second chance or walk away with your heart intact:

• Do you STILL love him after all the time and pain has passed?
• Will you be willing to live with the knowledge that he came back and you walked away?
• Are you ready to forgive him for hurting you so that a second chance has a chance to succeed?
• Do you believe he's sincere about wanting a second chance with you?
• Are you willing to go through all this a second time for the opportunity to be with him again?

It's these questions that will help you decide once and for all if he's worth the risk. Most of the time, it is worth the risk if there is love on both sides but if you really want to get your ex back and make things work this time around there are going to have to be changes made to the relationship so that you don't wind up right back where you were with a broken heart in the future.

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