My Boyfriend Broke Up with Me – Is Sex the Key to Get My Ex Back?

I've tried everything I can think of to get my ex boyfriend back. Is sex the solution I'm missing? Would this be the answer he's looking for from me?

It's hard knowing the right thing to do at a time like this. Your heart is telling you to do whatever it takes and your mind might not be in the best position to overrule your heart. But there are some things that would be a HUGE mistake to make during this painful period in your life. Having sex with your ex is one of those things.

Sex is not the answer that will help you get your ex back. In fact, it might damage your chances for succeeding in your efforts in the future.

It's really important that you understand that he might not say no. In the heat of the moment if you're really turning on the charm he'd be hard pressed to turn you down. But that doesn't mean he won't regret it in the morning. Then you'll just feel hurt all over again and he'll have another layer of guilt to deal with.

Any good that can come of sex at a time like this is temporary. You may even be able to get his attention for a little while and avoid the full effect of the breakup but sex alone will never be the salvation of your relationship. Good sex is important to a healthy relationship but it will never be the sole center of any great relationship. It's only a small part.

You're going to have to do a lot more than offer sex to him to save your relationship and get your ex boyfriend back. Here are a few changes that will have a lot more impact on your boyfriend than having sex with him ever could if you're serious about saving your relationship.

Let him see your admiration. You remember what it was like when you first started dating. You clung to him and made him feel like he was "the man." How long has it been since you've let him know he's the only man for you?

Show him some respect. Times have changed over the centuries but men still want to feel as though they are masters of the universe. If you really want to make him happy with you it's important to make him feel as though he is the King of his domain – you just don't have to let him know that his domain is limited to the garage and the remote control. It's all about the feeling of respect.

But before you can do these things you have to really get his attention so you can get your ex back. Watch this free video: http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html and you'll never need to wonder what your next step to win him back should be.