My Wife Cheated but I just Want My Family Back

Published: 04th August 2010
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You learn how to cope with many things in life as you grow. You get an education that is designed to help you deal with many situations life throws in your path. One thing that isn't taught in school and that there is no "on the job training" for is how to deal with a cheating wife.

Many men find that when they discover a cheating wife they have a lot more than just the hurt and betrayal of the act to deal with but also the potential loss of their family and everything they hold dear and have worked so hard for.

If you are one of the many men in this situation you might be thinking something alone the lines of "I know my wife cheated but I just want my family back!"

You are ready to forgive, forget, and move on with your marriage. The problem is, your wife may not be. She's the one that cheated. You're ready to forgive. What's the problem right?

Clear the Air

The first thing you need to do is clear the air between the two of you. You have to find out what's going on in her head if you want to have any hope in the world of saving your marriage and getting your family back - her included.

When you have children in the mix, emotions are close to the surface and explosive. You have to find a way to reign in your emotions as the two of you try to find common ground and figure out where and when in your marriage things began to go downhill.

Trust me, there's no such thing as a perfect marriages and wives usually don't cheat when all is well on the home front. There was trouble in paradise before she cheated or it would never have happened.

Make Your Case

Once you have her attention and have discovered what went wrong between the two of you, it's time to make your case for a second chance for your marriage. While you may feel a little out of your element apologizing when she is the one who cheated, it's best to sometimes go with it for the sake of saving your marriage and your family.

Remind her of the good times you've had together and show her how you can have them again if you both work together to make your family and marriage stronger than ever before.

Plan for the Future

While this is a time where it is important to take one step (and one day) at a time, it is also important to begin making plans and setting goals for the future. Your marriage and your family need the challenge of future goals and the reward of things to look forward to. Sit down together and come up with a few of your own for the romantic aspect of your marriage as well as for the entire family.

It's hard to stand by and watch as the family you've worked so hard to create falls apart. For many men there is only one option available: get your ex back - fast.

Follow the first step in this free video: It's the same first step that has led many families right back together. I believe it might be just what you need to get your wife and family back too.

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