Should I try to make My Husband Stop Cheating?

Dealing with a husband who cheats once is difficult enough. Handling a husband who isn't interested in or ready to stop cheating is another matter altogether. While some people would urge you to leave right away, it is still possible to save the marriage, even if he doesn't seem interested in working things out at home.

Here are a few questions you need to ask to help you decide if your husband is worth rehabilitating or your marriage is worth saving. Keep in mind that even if your marriage is worth saving it might take a lot of work to get there.

Do I believe he still loves me?

If you don't believe he still loves you on some level you might want to ask yourself why you're willing to work to hold onto the marriage. You have to have love (or at the very least a willingness to love), on both sides of the coin for a marriage to work. Even some arranged marriages are able to work, on occasion because both participants are willing to love one another in order to make it work.
Do I still love him?

Cheating damages the relationship. The more often it happens or the longer it continues the more damage it does. You really need to decide if you still love him enough to work things out or if you are just trying to salvage the relationship because you think that is what you are supposed to do at a time like this.

Am I willing to work hard to make this happen even if he isn't?
He might not be willing to put in long hours to work things out. You can win him over with consistent effort but it will be much more difficult if you are trying to bail out a sinking ship alone. Are you willing to do whatever is necessary to make this relationship work even if he is resisting every step of the way?

Why do you want to make your marriage work?

If your husband keeps cheating the final question you might want to ask yourself is why you want to work things out. This is an important question to answer honestly. Your answer will help you learn if now is the time to batten down the hatches and work things out or to set sail on a new course in your life. As hard as starting over in uncharted waters may be it is much easier than struggling to sail against an overwhelming current.

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