Should You Believe Your Cheating Husband When He Says He's Changed?

Published: 21st February 2011
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Your cheating husband says he's changed and turned over a new leaf. He says he'll never make the mistake of cheating again. He says he loves you and that he never meant to hurt you. Can you believe what he's saying at a time like this? How do you know he won't turn right around and cheat on you again?

The thing is, you know your husband better than anyone. In some ways you know your husband better than he knows himself. In other words, you know, better than anyone else, whether you can believe that he's sincere when he tells you that he's changed and he'll never cheat again. No one, not even he, knows how permanent that change will be.

But there is really GOOD news looming on the horizon for the sake of your marriage. You can make changes in your marriage that will help him remain on the straight and narrow this time around. If you really want to make your marriage work, these small changes can help your husband stay on the straight and narrow. They can also help you ENJOY your marriage more than ever before.

1) Spend time alone together each and every day. Make a point of having a little alone time to talk, connect, kiss, and cuddle. It doesn't have to be an hour or two. Just sneaking in 10 minutes a day to be alone together without the kids or while not rushing to get other things done can make all the difference in the world for the sake of your marriage.

2) Give him that mental "wind down" time after he comes home from work every day. I know it seems so unfair. Women today are often expected to walk in the door and immediately get busy making dinner, wrangling children, and otherwise preparing for a long evening at home. But, giving him thirty stress free minutes a night to "veg out" and forget about work will lead to serious adjustments in his attitude and your level of frustration.

3) Make him feel confident in your adoration of him. He needs to feel as though you believe he's the best thing since sliced bread. It's not a huge price to pay. If you stroke his ego and flatter him daily another woman will have a hard time competing with that in order to get his attention. This ego boost is often the reason he cheats in the first place. If you're giving it to him then he'll have no reason to look elsewhere for it.

Should you believe your husband is a changed man after he has cheated on you? That depends on whether you want to believe it or not. However, it's always a good idea to make a few changes in your marriage so that you don't find yourself trying figure out how to get your ex back after he's done it again. You know, just in case.

These are just a few changes that can make a big difference but if you want the secret to really "cheat proof" your marriage you're going to need to see what advice this FREE video -> has to offer.

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