Tell Tale Signs Your Husband is Cheating

Published: 27th October 2010
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Do You know a few tell tale signs your husband is cheating on you? If you suspect your husband is cheating you can look out for these signs to find out if you want to take your investigation to the next level. These signs will help you see the smoke of a cheating husband. It is up to you to find the proof once you've seen the signs.

1) Has your husband suddenly started being extra nice to you? It's one thing if he's always been nice. It's something else entirely if he suddenly starts buying expensive gifts or pitching in (willingly and not kicking, scratching, and gnashing teeth against it) with domestic chores like washing dishes. These are usually signs of guilt that indicate he's trying to atone for something. If he hasn't wrecked the car or spent the mortgage on some new toy then cheating is a logical guess.

2) Has your husband started being overly critical of you? This is the flip-side of the first question. Some men look to atone while others seek to justify their actions. If he suddenly seems to be looking for things to be angry about it's possible that he's attempting to seek justification for his cheating by finding fault with you.

3) Money is missing. It costs money to maintain a woman on the side. If you're noticing the household budget is a little tighter than normal or your bank statements aren't reconciling there could be a problem. Also be on the lookout for a new credit card he may be trying to hide from you. Some men buy a new credit card and have it delivered to work or somewhere else in an effort to hide or completely disguise the money being spent on another woman. Things to watch for include dinners, hotels, gifts, jewelry, and even lingerie items that he's definitely not giving to you.

4) Is your husband spending a lot of time online when you're not around? This is a huge sign in this day and age. Cyber romances were once dismissed as irrelevant or inconsequential but we now know that is hardly the case. Marriages are being destroyed over cyber relationships and emotional affairs. Your husband doesn't have to lay a hand on the other woman in order to be cheating on you with her.

The bottom line is that there is usually trouble when you sense there is trouble. You know what's normal for your marriage and what is definitely not normal for your husband. Follow your gut instincts if you feel that he is cheating and search for proof.

Sometimes you realize a little after the fact that you are better able to forgive your husband for cheating than you realized. Now you're left to try and pick up the pieces alone or to get your husband back.

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