Untimely Resolution - How to Get My Ex Back is a Chess Game - Not Checkers

By: Ben Cawiezell

Whoa, whoa, whoa...easy there...sometime it's better to take things a little slower and this is definitely one of those times. Your relationship has gone through the rough stuff. It's going to be dang near impossible to get your ex to forgive you and take you back all at once. While you're sitting their plotting to yourself "how to get my ex back"...perhaps the best move for you is to go ahead and take a step back.

In order for you to salvage this relationship it's going to take a plan of action. But this plan should be made of baby steps...not giant leaps.

You're getting excited. Why shouldn't you? It feels just like old times. The waitress takes your order, you start catching up with a little small talk, your smiling, your ex is smiling and there hasn't been a single argument. What could wrong? If you're not careful this type of situation can go from a very progressive step to getting your ex back to a very big setback known as premature reconciliation.

If you do get a chance to meet up with your ex for coffee or some small meeting after a breakup the last thing you want to do is end up in worse place than you were when you showed up. It's always good to be calm and collected, but if you're not...it's always best to try and appear to be.

A lot of guys and girls in this situation will get over anxious and try to progress way too fast. Even if your ex is feeling the same way you are about getting back together. You would be much better off saying something like "let's just take things slow and see what happens".

You can give up a lot of your control by showing that overly eager attitude towards getting your ex back. You're in this situation because your ex was obviously interested enough to see you...so you don't want to scare them off. You know that old saying "they want what they can't have"? Well that's kind of what's going on here. I'm not saying you need to rudely blow your ex off or even tell them you're not interested. Let them know you are into them...you just want to take it slow so things don't end up the way they were when you broke up.

You've come along ways from the crazy yelling matches that woke up the neighbors, the late night text terrorism and the constant driving past their house to make sure they were home or that nobody else is there. This is an important step that is going to require your patience.

How slow should I take it?
I'd better leave that to the guy who has secretly helped over 50,000 people on 77 countries reunite with their ex under some of the most extreme circumstances, TW Jackson. T Dub is going to show you exactly how to handle this situation when you get that point this combined with all the steps to show you how to get my ex back.