What Does a Relationship Break Really Mean to a Cheating Husband?

Published: 03rd February 2011
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Are you wondering what a relationship break really means to your husband after he's cheated on you? Many women wonder this as they weigh the decision of whether or not this is the best idea for their marriages after discovering a cheating husband. There are many pros and cons to sift through but in the end, this is a decision that only you can make for your marriage.

What Does a Relationship Break Mean to Men?

For the average man, a relationship break is party time. There's no getting around it. They get many of the benefits of marriage without so many of the drawbacks of married life that drove them nuts to begin with. It's often the demands of married life and the perceived nagging of spouses that lead men to cheat in the first place.

Men want their women to believe they hung the moon. When you start nagging or trying to coax, cajole, or bully him into doing what you want him to do, he is going to run the other way fast! This is the perfect opportunity for him to taste the single life and experience other women without the worry of losing you as a result (at least that is the first thought that is going to be going through his mind.

How to Make a Relationship Break Matter to Him?

Make this break about repairing your marriage and nothing more if you want the full scope of what's going on to sink in with him. Set the ground rules so that he knows being with other women at this time will not be tolerated. You're not taking a break from the bonds of marriage but getting a little distance in order to gain perspective and operate on a more logical (rather than purely emotional) playing field.

Put it into language he can understand and that will really get through to him no sex. He'll get the picture fast and thoughts of play time will be quickly replaced by efforts to get down to business.

If you really want to get your cheating husband back, relationship breaks are not the only way to go. In fact, they are one of the most dangerous. Absence may make the heart grow fonder but it can also lead to all kinds of other marital headaches your fragile marriage may not be prepared to deal with.

Don't wait until it's too late and you're needing to devise a plan to get your ex back instead of trying to save your marriage.

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