What if He's the Only One for Me and I Let Him Go?

Breaking up is hard to do – even if you're the one doing the dumping. It's even harder, sometimes, to live with the aftermath. You'll have moments of self-doubt and are likely to second guess yourself a time or two along the way.

If you really believe you made a mistake and want to make things right between the two of you there are things you can do to get your boyfriend back. Yes, you can even get him back if you're the one who did the breaking up.

However, it's important that you keep a clear head and don't take any action or make any attempt to get your ex back though until you're really sure that's what you want. It would just heap insult on top of injury if you try to win him over only to break up with him again.

For both of your sakes, ask yourself a few important questions before you even think about getting started.

Why do You Want Him Back?

You really need to find out if it's a matter of loneliness, as in you miss the companionship you shared together, or if you specifically miss having him in your life. There is a huge difference between the two and YOU need to know what you really want before you go after it.

So sit down and come up with a list of reasons you want to get him back. Then look over your list and see how many of the things on your list are specific to him and how many things on the list would be the result of having any man in your life.

If you've found plenty of reasons, specific to him it's a good start.

What has Changed so that things Might Work out This Time?

Things didn't work out between the two of you the first time around. What's different this time that makes you believe you can have a better result this time?

If nothing has changed yet, what are YOU willing to change in order to make your second chance last? Changes are necessary if you want to change the outcome. You're both going to need to make them. However, the sooner you start making the changes you feel are necessary on your end, the better it will be for the sake of your relationship (or any potential relationship in the future).

Do You Believe he Still Loves You?

If you truly believe he still has feelings for you – even if you think they are buried deep – then there is hope for reconciliation. What you make of that second chance is completely up to the two of you.

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