You've tried everything you can think of to get her attention. Unfortunately, all you've managed to do is sacrifice your pride while pushing her further and further away from you. You may not be as concerned about your pride as you are about the fact that she's just slipping away a little more with every attempt you make to get her back.
All you really want is for someone to magically point the way and answer one burning question for you: "What should I do to get my ex back?"
It always seems so much easier in the romantic comedies doesn't it? Happily ever after is always just a heartbeat away. You feel like you were so close to your happy ending. And then, out of nowhere, she decides to walk away.
Now your heart is broken and you have no idea where to even get started in an attempt to get your ex back. You feel like you need to do something but everything you've tried until now has had a disastrous result.
Perhaps it's time to try a new tactic on for size and this one is going to shock you to the core.
Try Doing Nothing for a Change
I know. It goes against everything you've been taught up until now. Those romantic comedies don't tend to fare very well when the couples do nothing. There are no funny antics and no delightful dialogue. Real life rarely works out the way it does in movies though.
Or you could take it even one step further. You could try agreeing with her about the breakup and the reason she gave you for the breakup. That will shock her for sure.
How often do you agree with her, after all?
When was the last time you told her she was right? I'd wager it's been a while.
The real beauty of doing nothing is that you're no longer a constant presence for her. You aren't there all the time. You're gone but most definitely not forgotten. You're probably more on her mind now, because of your absence, than you ever were when you were constantly trying, and unfortunately failing, to get her back.
This time, she has the opportunity to miss you and start to remember the good times you had together instead of just focusing on the unpleasant final moments or days of your relationship. She'll have time to want to have those good times back. That is when you'll have a real shot at success.
But there is one teeny tiny little thing you have to do FIRST if you really want to
get your ex back. You're going to have to watch this FREE video ->
http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html though to find out what it is.
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