When Should I be able to Move on After My Wife Cheated?

My wife cheated and I want to know how long it should be before I can move on and even think about starting a new relationship with another woman. That's a question that is more common than most people realize. Men often find that they really do like being married. They like the closeness of the relationship. They like the companionship and the home cooked meals most nights aren't bad either.

The problem is that many of these men don't realize that what they miss most is not something that any woman off the street can fill. They miss the woman they were married to. Yes she cheated. No it's not a good thing to do.

But, doing it alone doesn't negate her feelings for you. Finding out that she's done it also doesn't change your feelings for her either. That doesn't mean that they don't change your opinions about your marriage though. For some men it changes everything about what they feel the marriage should be.

How long does it Take to Get Over Your Cheating Wife?

I don't know if you're old enough or American enough to remember the old Tootsie Roll Tootsie Pop television commercial where the boy asks the wise old owl how many licks it takes to get to the center of the Tootsie Roll Tootsie Pop. Sometimes the only way to know the truth is to remove the wrapper and get busy working on that lollipop.

You can't know how long it will take to get over her completely. It's just not possible to predict. That being said, you should be able to go about your life and get through the day without breaking down into tears every time you drive past your bank or walk through your doors in a matter of days or weeks at the most. Other things will take a little longer to work through.

When Can I Date Again?

This is the million dollar question Some men take well over a year before they are ready to even think about looking at another woman. Other men prefer to "get back on the horse" quickly in hopes of avoiding a long draught by waiting.

Casual dating is one thing and a good idea for many men. Long-term relationships though are probably not a good idea for several months after the marriage has ended. This gives you time to come to terms with things, assess the situation, and work to avoid making the same mistakes this time around.

What if I can't Date Again after a Year?

While there is no definite time line if you are still unable to move on after a year then maybe the problem is that you're not really ready to move on without your wife and need to get your wife back instead.

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