Wouldn't it be great if one night of mind blowing sex could erase all thoughts of that other woman from his mind? I'm afraid it's going to take a little more than that to make him forget about her altogether. The good news though is that there are things you can do that will make it difficult for him to remember vivid details about that other woman over time.
It's not going to be easy working things out after your boyfriend has cheated on you. You're going to have this little voice of doubt in the back of your mind for quite some time. It will pipe in at the most inopportune moments making you doubt yourself and his love for you.
What more is it going to take than great sex to wash that woman right out of his mind?
Give Him his Happy Home Fantasy
Men don't want to come home from a long day of work and find themselves in a state of organized (or disorganized as the case may be) chaos. Your man wants to come home and relax. He wants to escape conflict.
He wants you to have a nice meal ready for him. He wants a drink waiting on him. He wants kids that are seen and not heard. He wants the 1950's ideal. He hasn't yet discovered that the ideal is an illusion that was shattered about 60 years ago. He grew up on the sitcom reruns and in the back of his mind that is the vision he had for married life. He wants that.
Give him a taste of that and see what a change it makes in his happiness with you, his interest in you, and his commitment to your marriage. You do not have to become Donna Reed to make him happy. Just give him an occasional glimpse of that fantasy and he'll be smitten with you more than ever before.
Begin Planning for the Future Together
Too many married couples sit around in limbo. They aren't making plans for the future they are just going about life one day at a time. If you aren't making plans you don't really have anything to look forward to. Sit down and start making long and short-term plans together. Simple things like vacations and weekend getaways to look forward to can do a lot to improve his view of your marriage and make him forget about any other woman that might ordinarily catch his eye.
Don't wait around for change to happen. Get your marriage back on track today. You can
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