Your Wife Cheated How Should You Feel About That?

Published: 21st March 2011
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You just found out your wife cheated on you. To some degree it feels as if the world has just fallen out from beneath your feet. Nothing feels as if it will ever be right in the world again. Sound about right?

But many men in your situation wonder (and you may be wondering too), "How should you feel about the fact that your wife cheated?" It's not like they have an app for that. Besides, in your infinite masculinity there's no way on earth you'd download it, right?

Men don't go around crying over their marital woes during coffee breaks at work. You compartmentalize the pain and anger you're feeling so that you can function throughout the rest of the day.

It's in those long hours at night that aren't filled with work that the pain and anger come back to haunt you more than a little bit. These are the times when you're left to wonder if what you're feeling right now is normal. This is when you wonder if you really can save your marriage even though your wife cheated.

Before you can take that step and really turn your thoughts towards the idea of saving your marriage though you really do need to take a little time to sort out how you feel. But you're going to have to stop worrying about how you should feel about the fact that your wife cheated and start focusing on how YOU do FEEL about it.

You see there's no golden rulebook for dealing with a cheating wife. There's no right or wrong way to feel after you find out news like this. You can't control how you FEEL. But you CAN control how you act on those feelings.

Acting on your feelings in a positive way can make all the difference in the world as to whether or not you'll be able to save your marriage or you'll need to look for some serious help on how to get your ex back instead.

But FIRST, have you even decided IF you want to make your marriage work? For some men, a cheating wife is the one thing that they can't move past.

Other men are able to look past the deed and see the woman they love.

Other men are just more willing to forgive this particular "sin" from their wives.

Still others have discovered that they love their wives enough to stand beside her through the bad times like this.

Only you can know for sure which kind of man you are.

You just need to understand that it's OK to be any of these men you choose to be. There's no right or wrong answer that works for every man. Sometimes you just have to give yourself permission to be who you are whether that means you are going to stay and work to save your marriage or walk away.

Before you make your decision though you really NEED to watch these free videos that will HELP you make up your mind about your decision to stay and make your marriage work or move on without your cheating wife in your life.

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